Remember that fear will cloud our Discernment. When we're feeling fear in our body it confuses our brain and neurological messaging which scrambles our inner compass. When we feel lost and confused and spun out in fear we've lost centre and we've lost our Inner Directional Compass. All of us have an inner compass that is our Spiritual Guidance System. It will lead us to safety and it will make the best choice for us at all times if we can indeed listen to it. But we have to remove the fear and we have to remove Lack of Trust in our relationship with our higher spirit and God. At the same time we must make the effort to not become stuck in magical thinking as God and Spirit helps those who are willing to help themselves and put forth the effort. We are here on this Earth to learn Spiritual Lessons as well as help support the Ascension process.
All of us must learn to overcome our fears, which dissolves the darkness that exists within the layers of our mind so that we can become free of mental bondage. When we are no longer controlled by fear based belief systems and reactions we can stop allowing Fear Bondage Loops and the dark spirits they attract to make an internal dwelling inside our body, mind and emotions. When we've cleaned out these internal dark dwellings (these are also called Demonic Houses) the spaces where there was darkness are now filled with light. In this state there is a tangible experience of mental and emotional freedom from fear. There are no more automatic impulses that internalize the Frequency of Fear or that darkness.
We must make an effort to identify what choices we do have and make changes in our environment that can increase our sense of safety and comfort while in a physical space. In order to be pro-active in creating Healthy Boundaries, we need to assess the physical safety of our environment and assess the emotional safety of our environment. And realize it may be necessary to remove people or situations from your life who are entrenched in extremely destructive or harmful behaviors in order to make these necessary changes to our life style.
When we are more competent in Emotional Self-Regulation our inner safety is enhanced so that more Trust can be formed and we discover that we really do have the resources inside of us for feeling more comfort and feeling safe. Now, sometimes we're going to need to maintain Healthy Boundaries in order to feel more safe and centred especially when in a group situation or difficult family situations. It could be any kind of situation. Healthy Boundaries is a must.
So, think about how you're feeling when you're around a person who drains you, pushes your buttons maybe consciously or unconsciously to upset you, someone with whom you feel you may easily lose your centre maybe lose your Impulse Control. Sometimes this happens when people are controlling, they're pushy, they're manipulating or they're demanding of our time and energy. How does this feel in your body? How does it feel in your mind? How does the presence of this particular person actually affect you?
Registering Feelings in Our Body
Now, as you're registering the feelings and sensations that you've made imagine your body's like a car with a dashboard with warning lights and you've just identified there's a check engine light on your personal boundary system. It's a security system warning you that "hey, your personal energy field's being breached and you're letting in negativity, you're letting in fear, maybe you're letting in stuff that really isn't yours". This is very important. When our boundaries are weak, when we're exhausted, when we're emotionally triggered, when we're unclear and confused we let in all sorts of debris that isn't actually our debris and we give away our own personal energy unconsciously. Many times people that are emotional vampires will cord to us too in order to actually drain the energy so this is essentially an emotional vampire relationship that's created from imbalanced energy exchanges made between the parties involved.
Discernment – Without using ego judgment test the personal resonance of people, events and circumstances that you choose to engage with or exchange with, determining which is either aligned to your person or not aligned to your person, in that moment. There is no right or wrong answer, only personal resonance and choice. That answer may change continually in different timelines depending on when you ask the question and what powers of discernment are cultivated. Learning personal discernment builds our necessary boundaries to discover what is productive and supportive for fulfilling our spiritual path or not. Discernment allows for continual productive growth and for the effective use of our personal energies and focused attention. By upholding our personal boundaries and applying discernment towards all things that we focus our energy and our attention upon, we are more effectively managing our consciousness and life force.
One must grow in Spiritual Maturity to be able to discern what is in alignment for you personally without judgment and what others may think of your choices. As you allow yourself to be who you really are as an embodiment of soul purposed truth, you will allow all others to be exactly who they need to be. Period. At this level of spiritual growth your inner serenity and state of inner peace will upset or baffle many around you. Stay serene anyway.
We will need the commitment, courage and strength to stand in our personal soul truth and its purpose, no matter what. Our soul fulfillment is the mirror for other’s soul fulfillment and is the highest contribution of Service to Others that one can make to the world. After we have made the commitment we will need to learn how to be energetically impeccable with our soul truth and its Discernment as we move forward.
A committed personal spiritual framework to help you develop disciplines over Negative Ego programming or limiting behaviors will support you immensely. It need not be an elaborate framework, the simple principles of Law of One, Golden Rule as in “Do onto others as you would Do onto yourself”, “Always Speak Compassion” or “What would Jesus DO?” Choose a spiritual framework that has personal meaning and relevance for you. You may find you decide to gather small pearls of wisdom from many different spiritual philosophies to create your own personal spiritual framework, to help support creating one's personal necklace of truth.
Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say
On the road to building personal integrity and developing trust and respect between mutual parties in communications, it is important that you say what you mean, mean what you say and be kind when you say it. Further, align with your words by representing yourself as you really are, and doing what you said you were going to do. When you do communicate, reflect upon the intention of the words you choose as being honest, truthful, and trustworthy, as these qualities build strong inner and outer personal integrity.
Consent is an act of the power of the mind to think and understand, to reason and perform careful consideration of participation with something, and to reflect on the consequences of that participation. The proper meaning of consent is a person who exercises sufficient mental capacity to make an intelligent decision that is demonstrated through the genuine willingness of an action, as the result of reaching an agreement in mutual or shared interests, or performing an action that is proposed by another. Consent is not real consent any longer when tactics of terror, intimidation, deception and fear are used as an explicit tool to manufacture consent in a person, in order to get them to go along with performing an action. Obviously, this is coercion administered under threat of personal harm. Thus, we can be made aware that many people’s consent is stolen, manipulated and manufactured through the specific psychological targeting of the masses with intimidation, bullying, terrorism and victimization fears. This is a mass media psychological operation used to traumatize the world citizens, distracting them from comprehending the power of consent.